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Necklace – Collabor:10

January 26, 2011 2 comments
Its been a quiet few weeks for me on the photography front. So today’s photo is a bit of a last minute gather. It’s of a necklace I bought for Hannah for her birthday, and it has become a photography subject just because it is interesting in texture, pattern and dimension.
Yeah.. I’ll try harder next time. ­čÖé

Shutter 1/30, f/7.1, ISO 800, 131mm.

 

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Parachute…

January 20, 2011 4 comments

Sunday afternoon.

30th January.

Be there.

Categories: Blog, Faith

Oncology 10.0

January 18, 2011 11 comments

We are into double figures now with the CT scans, and the report isn’t good.

The cancer is growing again.

Two nodes, one has increased from 10mm to 13mm, the other from 15 to 18mm. The other two nodes have remained static. This is consistent with the slow rising CEA that I have had over the past 2 – 3 months, and together forms the clinical picture that the cancer is beginning to topple off it’s ‘stable’ status.

The CT scan is going to get a more formal review by radiologists, and then quite possibly a surgical/oncological/radiological collaboration review. Basically as it stands, if the cancer is no longer responding to the chemo, then options are rapidly running out. We can try similar drugs again, such as Oxaliplatin, which was used in my first line chemo regimen, or we can look at third and fourth line options. The problem with third and fourth line options are that they are not funded by pharmac, so if we choose to go down them, we will financially haemorrhage ourselves.

The future at this stage is a big unknown. Oxaliplatin will mean some serious limitations to how much I can work as a Doctor. The side effects can be pretty debilitating. Lets just wait and see what the Onc’s think.

..aaaahhh uncertainty..

It keeps life interesting…

Categories: Cancer Update

Auckland Dusk – Collabor:10

January 16, 2011 3 comments

Earlier in the week we went to Sail’s restaurant on Westhaven marina for dinner for my wife’s birthday. It was pretty darn delicious, and I highly recommend it. We even got served by one of the judges from Master Chef NZ! Anyway, on the drive back, I noticed a prime spot to get some of Auckland’s skyline in and came back a few nights later to capture this just as the sun had gone down.

Shutter 25s, f/13, ISO 100, 47mm.

NB – Collabor:8 has two 3 new members, and 1 less of the old for 2011, hence the upgrade to Collabor:10

Categories: Photography

Chemo 23.0

January 15, 2011 1 comment

After having a month off chemo, I hit back with chemo number 23. Skipping a round is simultaneously good and bad for the soul. It is a nice reprieve from the pleasantaries of chemotherapy, but at the same time, having too much time off lulls you into a false sense of security that everything might be normal…

The reality is for me, apart from my bowel obstruction 2 years ago, the only way in which cancer has actually impacted my life is through the effects of chemotherapy. I have never had any associated cancer pain, any decline in organ function, or any mass effects from the cancer impinging on nerves or vascular structures. Therefore, the absence of chemotherapy is like a little window into what life might be like without cancer.

This round featured less intense nausea, but an increase in the duration of nausea. It wasn’t really until Monday evening that I began to feel my normal self. I also felt a bit under the weather on my first 2 days back at work. I was functional, but feeling pretty tired for a lot of the day. I don’t plan on breaking from my fortnightly schedule until march now, so…

Round 24 is next….

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The Anti-Hero

January 11, 2011 13 comments

Some one in my recent history once described me as an anti-hero. The terminology came about as a reference to the kind of message I have been sharing, and why it seems to resonate with people of different walks of life.

So often in life, we are sold ideas and and methodologies of how to ‘win’ in life, how to ‘succeed’ and how to get everything you want. Such is the fairy tale ending that we all seem to be after. Our lives, no matter which part of the journey we are on, seem to be aiming for this ultimate destination where we can say we have won, or succeeded, or found that place where we can live happily ever after. This idea of thinking is endemic in our culture, and is also seeping into Christian faith based practice. It would seem the measure of our life is by how well we have done in either our marriage, our job, or our material possessions.

When we are children, we cannot wait till we are teenagers and the world is our oyster. When we are teenagers, we can’t wait till we leave school and gain some independence. When we have left school, we can’t wait till we have graduated to get our first job and start earning money. When we are single, we can’t wait till we are married (or settled down) with the women/man of our dreams. Then, kids become the panacea, followed by the desire to be rid of them. Finally, retirement seems to the pinnacle of our life’s achievements. At every step of the way, the next step seems to be greener grass that we desire. The fairy tale ending is just within our reach, yet just beyond it.

By far the majority of us will never find the promised fairy tale ending.┬áMost of us will keep reaching for the next branch, thinking that will be the final one, only to discover it wasn’t as good as we anticipated, or that there are many other branches to climb before we arrive…. arrive where exactly, its hard to say.

Perhaps that is why my story resonates with people. Statistically, I’m unlikely to find my fairy tale ending. The next steps in life for me are probably going to be painful, and full of suffering. I will endure some of the hardest things I will ever have to face, and friends and family will be dragged through the same turmoil. There is no fairy tale ending here, only sadness, mourning, loss, and grief.

If we try to find our purpose in the ending, we only end up losing ourselves in the process of getting there. What I have discovered is that the purpose is in the journey, no matter where that journey leads us. The path we are on, no matter how successful or unsuccessful is littered with stories of meaning, of relationships, and of purpose. Through finding meaning in the journey, I am at peace that my outcome will NOT be the fairy tale ending, I have found purpose in the day to day living of my life. The colours are brighter, the relationships more vivid, and what it means to serve humanity is more apparent. I’m okay with dying, and I have come to that place by finding meaning and purpose in the journey rather than the destination.

Let’s also be clear, I’m not saying that meaning is found by accepting our inevitable and slow demise, I’m saying that by realizing it is the journey that is important, the inevitable demise no longer matters. The ending, whether good or bad pales into insignificance when contrasted against the reality of living the way God intended in our lives now.

I also have to be clear on another point. I have described the meaning found in the journey above without using God language, but the reality for me is that faith is an integral part of that journey. I cannot imagine any of these things apart from God. The meaning, the sanctity of life, the value of serving humanity, all comes from one source. And as such, deserves all my attention, all my focus, and all my energies.

This is why I’m an anti-hero. I don’t talk about conquering, overcoming, or being the victor. I talk about the reality of suffering in my life, and why I’m at peace with that. I talk about why more often or not, there is no fairy tale ending.

Thanks for listening.

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Unfurling – Collabor:8

January 4, 2011 3 comments

There are a few classic subjects in New Zealand that are far from original, but I have always wanted to get the right shot of them. The unfurling fern is one of them, and it is surprisingly difficult to photograph. This largely stems from the fact that I don’t own a macro lens and required me to use my 50-250 lens, and shutting down the aperture right down to 13 to get a wide enough depth of field. On top of that, when you shut the aperture down and zoom in, you inevitably slow your shutter speed to compensate, and motion blur slips into the picture.

I easily to took about 40 photos to get the final one which was sharp enough, composed right, and had adequate DOF for my liking.

Shutter: 1/60s, f/13 ISO 400, 250mm

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